My mother is 92. Right now she is in a nursing home for rehab after getting pneumonia. Her husband is also 92.....he is totally blind, and believe it or not still works as a realtor. (this could be a comedy series) He became a realtor after becoming blind. He has lots of people who drive him around and do stuff for him. He really has no business working at all as he has the beginning stages of dementia. My mother has dementia. Now, here is the problem: My mother has about 9 rental homes. Right now my step-dad is managing them for her which scares the heck out of me as I do not trust him for one minute!! He has pulled some fast ones on my mother financially several times in their married life. My mother knows it, forgives him, and tries to trust him. My mother doesn't know that she will be in this nursing home permanently yet. I don't like the idea of her husband managing these rentals for my mother at all !!! It makes me soooo nervous. I am an only child so everything is all on me. What I would like to see is that a management company be hired to manage my mothers properties, however, I cannot talk to my mother about this......she wouldn't understand, she gets so confused. My mother and my step-dad have a prenuptial agreement. They do keep their monies separate. I am still very concerned that my step-dad is going to do something he shouldn't be doing with her properties, like pocket money, etc. I've had people tell me that there is nothing at all I can do at this time as I have no power of attorney or say regarding what she does. I'm a nervous wreck.