My situation is I moved in with mom 1yr ago to help her out. I transferred with my job and sold/gave away most of my belongings to fit into moms house. I moved 400 miles to help her and renting my house to a friend cheap just so I have someone I know to watch over it. I plan to go back when mom is gone. But I'm scared I could get thrown out if she ended up in a nursing home and we have to sell her house to pay for it. I don't want to go back home til she is gone. The stress is already bad enough that I don't have a home (it's hers not mine) It's been a year now, It would have been a ton easier if she came to my home. But I didn't want to take her from her home. I don't have much of my own stuff around to help feel like home or the things that would make things more convenient especially in the kitchen. Doesn't help I've never liked her house, laid out terrible and no room in kitchen she never really cooked so it didn't bother her, and bathroom is too narrow as well. But until she is gone this is where I need to be. Adding to the stress of not being home is the fear of getting thrown out if we have to sell it to pay for a nursing home and forced to pack and move in the middle of dealing with her decline or even shortly after her death before I'm ready. I know this sounds petty to most who are going thru more now, but if someone who has gone thru this can let me know and I can relax about this one thing. I came up here Dec '12 when she fractured her pelvis then this Nov '13 she had kidney failure. But she she doing very good now, Which makes me feel like I'm away from home for nothing. But I need to be here in case something happens again. Sorry this turned into a whining poor me. I know most are going thru more. Which there again makes me feel guilty.