My mom was living on her own with very little assistance until she fell and broke her femur. The bone was surgically repaired and she stayed at a rehab center for 3-4 weeks and got a little better but decided she didn't want to do her PT or OT any more because it hurt too much. We moved her to a foster home and she now is totally bed ridden and is requiring total care refusing to get out of bed or do anything for herself. My sister and I are at our wits end and don't know what to do to help. Anybody experienced this type of situation? What should we do?