I tried to do this before and she was so hateful, I gave the bottle back. It didn't turn out well...she overtook and then was in withdrawal when they ran out. I know I have to stand my ground with this, but how do I not let her hatefulness take it's toll on me? We have never argued in my life...and to have her act so hateful is really painful. She will be 85 in April, and I guess I'm just looking for some advice on how others handle it when their mom or dad becomes angry/hateful a lot.