The dr did a ct of her head and found small vessel issues and sent her to a neurologist. She refuses to go. He said she needed to trust him and the team to help her live independently otherwise she many not know her children in 6 months and be in a nursing home. My mom refuses to go the neurologist. The dr sent a letter stating if she was not medically compliant and followed up with the nero, then he would be forced to turn information into to the state because she was not safe to drive. He also said to get a POA, which of course she also refused. She is still driving and living alone. She said she would run away if we tried to take her to another dr. I'm lost. I don't want my last memories with my mom to be arguing She swears I want her dead and her money when I bring up the subject. Please help. What should I do?