Now since she's been declared incompetent I feel like she has no rights. I'm going to court next week for guardianship and conservorship. The lawyer doesn't want to proceed with the divorce because she's incompetent. Her husband is manipulating her because he doesn't want to pay. Now she can't remember all the bad stuff in the relationship and is glorifying it. Now the lawyer wants to talk to my mom about the guardianship and my mom doesn't understand what's going on and she says there's nothing wrong with her. The lawyer says it's not what I want but what my mom wants. But her mind is just not there at times.