I am the closest to her in distance ( 4 hours). My sister lives 10 hours away. Bottom line, with her injuries, need for rehab, and dementia, I brought her to live near me. She lives in a very nice assisted living facility. She had a nice savings account but after two years it is dwindling down and soon we will have to put her on Title 19 or Family Care. She currently lives in a cute one bedroom apartment. In order to qualify for Family Care, she will have to move to a studio apartment. There are cute studio apartments right in the facility that she is currently living in. My problem is the guilt I feel. About 30 years ago she had her house put on mine and my sister's names with the exact reason that she wanted us to have it when she died. That was to be our inheritance. We have recently sold her house and my sister and I have split the proceeds. (It is NOT a lot of money.). Well, my sister has been recently widowed and that little inheritance is very helpful to her. I have recently retired and that little inheritance is in my savings account to help with my retirement, My issue is this.....the guilt I feel if mom has to go on Family Care or should I use up my inheritance to put towards her one bedroom apartment so she won't have to move to a studio apartment? Do I respect her first wishes that her daughter's have the house money or should I go back to work to pay the difference it would take to keep her In her one bedroom or take my inheritance to use on her rent? Any advice would be so welcome.