My mother lives on her own a few states away and has been increasingly shaky on her feet for a few years. She walks often with a cane, sometimes a walker, sometimes not and grabbing on to things - all very inconsistently. She has fallen a number of times and either has been able to get up by pulling on things or calls a relative to help her get up. She refuses to go to the doctor after these falls or have any assessment of her mobility done. So far she's apparently got really good bones because no breaks yet. But one day there will be - it is inevitable. She will not listen to me AT ALL. I have literally begged her to discuss this with her doctor and get physical therapy - all I got was personally attacked, she thought of the most painful things to say to me. What can I do?