My wife and I are the sole caregivers for my mother who is in the early stages of dementia. Her behavior towards my wife and I has become intolerable. She has become very hostile towards us and lashes out constantly. Last year she moved to an independent plus facility that everyone agrees is very nice. It was her request to help her find a place to live where she could get more care. She is in a wheelchair and even has trouble transferring, but now she is insisting that she be moved back to her condo against everyone's advice including her doctor's. My wife and I are at the end of our rope as we no longer have any quality time with my mom and she just keeps pushing more people out of her life and isolating herself. We have had it with her hostility.