Dad is in a nursing home for advanced dementia after having a fall at home in April. My husband and I live in Florida 6 months and 3 hours away from her the other 6. When 3 hours away, I stay with her 2 nights a week and take her to see dad. My brother works fulltime stays 2 or 3 nights a week and takes her to see dad twice a week. We are afraid to have her home by herself and don't want to manage in home care. A nurse who did an evaluation of her said I'd have to bring her to a place, say I had to go to the bathroom but instead leave. Is there any other way? Has anyone done this?