My parents are both 92. This week my mom's blood pressure has been 180/110. She refused to go to the hospital or a temporary stay in assisted living. she and dad live in an apartment at a senior center. my dad went into assisted living, supposedly temporarily, a few weeks ago. the staff doesn't think mom is well enough to take dad back into the apartment with her but she keeps saying she is. she has aged terribly these last years taking care of him. and she is really, really stubborn. i'm an only child and it is hard to know what to do.