Ok, so I think this is a strange issue I'm having trouble getting a hold of, perhaps someone can shed some insight. My mom is in the early stages of dimensia, she was diagnosed in August. . It's been a rough couple of years, as she's been getting worse but now at least the family is all aware due to the diagnoses. . However, about a year and a half ago my mom decided she didn't want to live at home anymore. . After staying over for a few days while I was away on business, she basically stayed with us ( my son who is 8, my fiance and myself). We currently live in a 1 bedroom apartment. . It's tight with the 3 of us, with my mom staying in the couch along with her dimensia symptoms it can really get crazy in our house. My relationship with my fiance had been strained to begin with and things are truly worse than ever between us now, we get very little privacy and my mother is constantly inserting herself in any conversation were having, no matter if it's really her business or not. I try and understand ad that it'd the dimensia and not to argue. . My mom owns a house not far from where we leave where she lived with my Dad that she days she is selling but is making no effort to do so, our family is now going to try and sell it this spring. . She also owns a vacation house she just bought herself 3 years ago she hasn't seen in 2 years, her sis lives across the street. . Her sister in law has offered to let her stay in her basement apartment and she had agreed to but now will now stay there. . She sometimes goes and stays with her friends for a few days. I would really like to find my mom a place to stay where she is comfortable and happy. Right now, she keeps bouncing from place to place telling us how's she's helping my aunts, or that she's helping us, or she's helping her friends. . When she's with us I try not to argue with her but it's very very difficult as we are baaciallyntalking care of her and she insists she's here to help - this can get messy concerning my son as he has afterschool activities and a regular babysitter and she feels she should be watching him. This does not turn out well as she isn't able to help him with his homework, get him where he needs to be, etc. But she gets angry when a babysitter shows up. . She'll also just sit on the couch all day, she won't even ask to change the TV channel. I try and help her, or suggest we find her some things to do but she so far won't. . She'll just sit around incessantly texting on her phone, I suppose to her friends and sisters. . So, really what I feel I need to do is get her situated, likely in my aunts basement. . Find her some activities. . Have her come spend time with my son a couple days a week or vice versa. . But, in order to do this I need to get my fiance, my aunts, her friends and most especially my mom on board with all of this. . So far, I catch a lot of grief from everyone but I can see this situation is just not workable. . And while I would try to find a way to live with my mom, her crashing on my couch almost every night ( she insists on the couch by the way) really isn't healthy for any of us. . Any thoughts?