Why is my mother constantly getting onto to me? She is living with my husband and I because she has bad vision & hearing. I am 53 years old and the oldest sibling. My mother gets mad at me when I do not take her advice. She also gets mad at me at the way I drive. I am a very careful driver, but she drives much faster than me. I talk to her in a very calm manner and I just say, "OK, thanks" when she gives advice. Sometimes I take her advice, but sometimes I do not. Help!