Mom just moved into AL after 2 hospital stays. She has advanced COPD and dementia, She has a recurring fear that my sister and I have placed her in a mental institute and have taken away all of her money. She is calling me and other family members whose phone numbers are stored in her phone 3-4 times daily, sometimes pleasant but mostly angry and yelling. Then hangs up if told it isn't true. Today she told me how much she liked her apartment , new friends and activities. Said she was okay with visiting her home for holidays and weekends. Great. Two hours later I am the evil and she hates me. My sister, nieces and husband cringe when she calls. I visit every Wednesday and my sister visits every Sunday. I can usually cajole her into a good mood or take her out to eat which she loves. This disturbing behavior can happen at any time out of nowhere. Redirecting usually doesn't help. One time I told her I want going to talk about it and walked out of room, came back in a few minutes, acted like nothing happened. Worked that time but not the next So sad that mom thinks I am cheating her and mean to her. Help!