I have POA. I pay all her bills. Mom feels she should be able to spend her money on what ever she wants. I try to explain that we are not in that position to afford to shop for clothes when I am spending 200 a month to store her clothes. Mom was a compulsive shopper and now that she is feeling better she is wanting. I'm still trying to close up her house so I can sell it. I am alone in this war w no support from anywhere.