I have cared for my Mom for more than a decade in varying degrees. A little over a year ago, I placed her in an Assisted Living Facility. I had to accept it was getting too difficult for me. I have an autistic son and my husband and I own a business. I simply could no longer take care of her as it now full time with no end in site. She loved the Assisted Living Facility. However, she became ill with a UTI and wasn't eating or drinking as she should have been. Then had a fall (already limited mobility due to spinal stenosis). She has been in and out of the hospital five times since January with repeat UTI's. During this time, I moved her to a board & care because she really neeeded more personalized care than the Assisted Living could provide. However, she hates it. I don't know how to get the physical care she needs while providing her with the environment she likes. Help!