Our mom is still mobile. Once she's helped into a sitting position in the morning to get out of bed, she then uses her walker to get from her bed to her potty (approximately 7-8 feet). The lid to her potty is usually closed so she gets in her position and then lifts it up. She wears depends so while standing and holding on to her walker, she pulls down her depends to right below her knees. Then she sits down and uses the potty. Then, she stands up, while holding on to her walker, pulls up her depends and then uses her walker to get to her chair/recliner which is approximately 10-12 feet away. However, when she feels/thinks no one can see her, she'll do EVERY SINGLE THING by herself and in an extremely minimal amount of time. We have watched her of course w/out her knowing and that's how we learned this. So my question is... what do we do when we know full well she can maneuver around and do everything on her own but, she'll act unbelievably pitiful when we're around, yelling out for help or even standing in a position for several minutes or so calling out and saying she needs help?? This is becoming overwhelmingly overwhelming, if that even makes sense?? Please help. Thank you so much.