She is still able to live (somewhat) independently with a lot of assistance from family but has significant memory loss and is fairly frail. My husband and I live the closest, less than 15 minutes from mom, and call and stop by at least once or twice a week. I'm able to take her grocery shopping but she's not up to doing much else and really prefers her environment and card playing with some friends in the building she lives in which is quite nice and she says she loves. However, she is not a fan of the new custodian and the feeling is probably mutual as my mother is very perfectionistic and, frankly, kind of OCD, particularly about her surroundings. So, she now believes he is trying to drive her nuts by coming into the apt. when she's not there and messing with her curtains, leaving notes on the fridge and covering her microwave with plastic so the numbers don't work well....you get the picture. I've spoken with her primary care doctor and he is suggesting that she start taking a low dose of either Seroquel or Trazadone to help alleviate some of her paranoia and anxiety symptoms. Does anyone have any experience with an elderly person taking these drugs and how they react? Given her relative instability I'm concerned that she might become even less sure on her feet (she does use a walker well) but the middle of the night could be problematic. Thanks for any input anyone may be able to provide.