My Mom has been in the nursing home since Feb. She is wheelchair bound and cannot stand up by herself. She, also, suffers from dementia, incontinence and osteoporosis. It, now takes 2 people to stand her up, but, she thinks she is fine, so she begs me to take her home, which I can't do. It breaks my heart that I can't let her go home. My Dad is at home, but, he also, suffers from dementia and he can no longer take care of her. What can I say to her that will help.