Four years ago, I locked up my home, moved to an apartment closer to my parents and took a position there. This allowed me to come home every weekend to help them. Last year, I put a pause on my career and moved home to be 24/7 caregiver. They offered to (are are able to) pay me as I am not eligible for full retirement yet, or Medicare. Dad has Alzheimers, mid stage. Mom has AFib, and beginning stage dementia. My sister wants to move us all to her home in a major city. Their wish has always been to stay here, on land where Mom was born, in rural home. It's an ongoing battle with my sister. Conversely, my brother supports their wishes. My relationship with my sister is suffering, as she is judgmental, critical, suspicious which break down my spirit and adds to my stress and causes me to question my decisions. It's haunting.