My mom was recently diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer HER 2+ it has moved to her lymph nodes and bones. Her mammogram didn’t show anything six months ago and now it’s the size of a baseball. She lives independently with my step father age 91. I am raising my three grandchildren ages 9, 7, and 6. I’m trying to get an idea of how quickly this is going to go down. I realize there is no cure. The only treatment she is receiving is hormone and bone therapy. I just don’t know where to go from here. I’ve asked them to move into my home but they wish to stay home. Now what? How do I manage her care and how do I take care of my step father after she’s gone? Yes, I’m panicking. Is she looking at six months? Six weeks? Six years?