I am the sole care giver for my mother. She is 82 and 300 lbs in a wheelchair. I am 57 and 129 lbs. It is hard to push her around. My arm and lower back seem to be messed up from this. What can I do?
1. She will not push herself around
2. She will not lose weight
3. She will not look into getting a new wheelchair.
If my back goes out we are both in trouble. Any advice?