We put mum into care several weeks ago after living with me for 5 years due to her uncontrollable behaviour. All her clothes were labelled but noticed after 10 days that her underwear was not being replaced, she had enough pants for over 2 weeks. I have read other people's comments about missing garments but I don't feel that this is down to mum, several other items including nightdresses are also missing, as well as garments appearing. Although she has dementia she doesn't have a room on a dementia unit and I feel this problem is down to the staff. It's really upsetting for me as I looked after her well. I am having to sell her property to fund care which isn't cheap and don't see why I should wash her clothes or take new underwear in. All was logged in a meeting we had but nothing has changed. I'm going to visit her today and have another word with the staff. What I don't understand, if labelled why do they get it so wrong. Do you think that I am over reacting?