When do we start the process for the DPOA? MIL won't discuss it and we understand why, but we really need to get the paperwork in order. She lives with us full time and has to have help with everything. The doctor is trying to wait on her and us to get her finances in order before he moves forward with documenting anything else about her condition. I guess my question is how bad does she have to get before she can no longer make those choices?