My MIL is so afraid she will step on my foot when I'm moving her she almost makes us both fall. And she has severe Rheumatoid Arthritis and tries to "help" but ends up making more work. I have calmly and sweetly tried to change these. But her dementia makes it a daily maddening chore. I am wife to her only child who can't handle any of this. So it's me 24/7 caring for her in her home. I've not slept in my own bed in a month.