I am a 53 year old woman who has worked and lived independently since my early twenties. I lost my job and move in with my mother and brother. This was four years ago. I've worked part time on and off. Now I'm unemployed. My mother is 70 and is suffering from dementia and Alzheimer. It has gotten worse. I want to work and of course it's harder to find employment since I've gotten older. I feel I am destined to be mom's care taker. My brother doesn't want her in a home and we can't afford it. We don't have the money for help. I can't anybody able to take care of her. She goes into rages several times throughout the day. What happens when my mom passes and I'm jobless, older, unemployed? My brother is going to school and wants to work himself any ideas?