I know Mom is only allowed to keep about $60 per month and the rest goes to the NH. I also know Depends/etc. costs about twice that per month. If incontinence care isn't included, how do they expect the person in the NH to pay for that? I certainly cannot afford to. Do they expect family to cover this? There is no one who would be willing or able left in our family who could do it. Really hoping to hear that the $6000/month fee they charge covers it. Mom's SS/pension is about half that so Medicaid of course would pay the rest. TIA.