How do you get Medicaid details when they won't even call you back?

I'd love to find out if a "transfer asset" would earn my parents the Medicaid so desperately needed. Can't even get them to call us back and we applied one and a half nmonths ago. Been told it will be six to eight months before we are accepted into the program, meantime Mom is dying and we will just have to pay all the medical bills and drive Dad and disabled sister into the poor house.... figuratively speaking.... She's coming home for Hospice now,and Medicare pays that but geesh, what if she could recover and we would lose the Medicare coverage that hospice provides? I'd rather share poverty with my Mom than affluence without her, but I sure wish Medicaid could be written down somewhere! We're in NJ.