I am the Durable POA for my Mom. She has dementia and resides in a Medicaid approved Nursing Home. She is currently private pay, however, within a year, she will need to apply for Medicaid. Is it alright, per Medicaid, for her to give cash, say $30-50 to her children on their birthdays? Also, if my sisters buy clothing for my Mom, is it alright per Medicaid to reimburse them. My Mom lives in Iowa.