Motherinlaw is now living with her son and myself and the only thing she pays for is her prescription meds.(fosomax for her brittle bones, she can just sneeze and fracture a bone. and prozac,which somewhat keeps her from being unbearably hateful).Now keep in mind she has spent her inheritance on her daughter and grandson, buying them cars and college tuitions ,plus mortgaged the home her mother left her.Now that she has nothing left but her ssi check, failing health and only 35k from the sale of her house after the mortgage is paid,I have been blessed with being her caregiver. She eats more than I do, wants only the best of everything. I bath her ,do her hair nails and pedicures. Carry every meal to her. at time when I have been busy , have asked to make herself a sandwich, and she will either eat cookies, or pour dry cereal on the counter and eats that instead....never offers a dime for . Her daughter will not even come and sit with her so I can go to the DR.When I bake she calls her daughter over and gives her half of what I have baked. Sorry friends, I know I am complaining, but I feel like I could just sit down and bawl and never stop ! My carpet is very very old and frayed and i fear she is going to trip and fall . I would so love to put in a walkin tub to make bathing her easier on me. My question is: If I used money from the sale of her house for these two items,would the five year medicaid look back make me pay this back?