I am new to this world of looking after an elderly person. My father in law is moving into our home in 3 days time, and I am scared stiff. He makes it very obvious that he doesn't like me very much, and dotes on his other daughter in law (the wife of the golden boy who refuses to take him into his home), and so he is coming to ours, to the son who is willing to do anything for his father, but who gets dropped the minute his brother comes on the scene. I feel already like I am completely trapped and that my marriage is going to fall apart because of this. I am also angry that the rest of the family is ok with our marriage being in the firing line, ready to just deposit an angry, resentful old man in our laps and then dash off back to their own lives. My husband goes back to work, my kids go back to school, and I am left with him 24/7. Already I don't know whether I can cope, and I am angry that I have no choice in this situation but to step up and do what needs to be done for an exceptionally ungreatful family (and old man) and an oblivious husband who keeps telling me its going to be fine. Help please.