So I have finally overcome the guilty emotion and have decided to move my father into a n assisted living faculty near my brother. I live in Maryland where I have been taking care of my Father in his home. Hes beyond my care now..... Hes been deemed incompetent and I have healthcare power of attorney. So how do I make this transition easier for him and myself I know hes gonna to fight me (verbally) but the Doctors and nurses say its time. We are going to try him in an assisted living to see how he does. Hes has swallowing problems and hes been diagnosed with Alzheimer as well. I think if hes in a faclitiy with people his own age that relate to him that maybe his quality of life would improve. When I have been taking care of him he never went out except maybe to the Doctor. The assisted living facility s Sunrise in Charlotte. Am I doing the right thing?