My mother had a stroke in 2003. She lives alone in her own home with caregivers that come in daily. The stroke affected her right side. She takes care of her own affairs/bills, etc. She also pays the caregivers. My concern, when do you know that it is time to start overseeing the finances, making sure she is paying things on time, etc without making her feel I have to watch everything she does. She is a very independent person and always was and insists living in her home and not an assisted living facility which we tried and she hated it. Thanks!