My mother who has been living with us since February thinks that I am her husband instead of her son. This makes it very uncomfortable for me and even more so for my wife. As long as my wife is away in another room things seems fine. She is calm and quite. As soon as my wife makes an appearance she starts getting uncomfortable and wants to go home to her house just across the way (not so). She can get pretty nasty to my wife making comments to her that can be just plain mean. I am at my wits end and don't know what to do. The family cannot afford Assisted Living with a Memory Care unit which is really what she needs. Has anyone faced these problems and what can I do?