My mom is paralyzed due to a stroke. Its already been more than three months since she had the stroke and was in rehab for three months with no sign of improvement. She can't do anything by her own. She needs assistance all the time and also she can't move or control her left arm. After the three months that she was at the rehab they sent her home and I was supposed to take care of her, but only if she could walk or stand by herself and she can't do none of those. I'm a cancer patient with a lot of side effects from the treatment that impede me to take care of her the way I would wanted. I need an environment where I can have peace and no stress and I can't have it while I'm taking care of her. I can't move my mom from the wheelchair to the bed without getting suffocated and tired due to my illness. I have to do everything for her from preparing her breakfast, lunch and dinner. I give her meds her insulin because she has no way of doing it herself, while I'm sick and feeling bad. I also have to change her diaper when she do both necessities. So far I don't see any signs of a prompt recuperation for her and due to my illness and under the advice of my oncologist I can't no longer take care of her. I have to brothers that refuse to get out of their comfort zone and step up to the plate and assume their responsibilities. They refuse to take care of her. I told my mom that due to my cancer and the way I'm feeling I no longer can take care of her that she needs to go into a nursing home. She gets very aggressive and combatant with me and argues with me and refuses to move out of the apartment. I'm already working with a social worker that is helping me find a nursing home, but due to my mom's refusal I'm in a situation that at this point I don't know what to do any longer and I would like some advices at respect and what can I do legally to make my mom move out to a nursing home?