I put my mother in a nursing home a few years ago when she broke her hip. I noticed that several times the staff there would just let her lie in bed without making an effort to get her out of bed. They would say that she did not want to eat or get up. My argument was that she has dementia and does not know what is good for her and so when I got her back home I make her get up and eat. Am I going against the natural order of things?