Sorry to be so wishy-washy, but I'm so terrified this is the wrong decision, but I'm also terrified for him to come home, I don't see how I can handle him. He's very difficult, but sometimes acts fairly normal, but not totally. How do I make peace with this decision. I'm afraid he will insist that when the therapy is finished at assisted living, which will last approx. 4 - 6 weeks that he will insist on going home. From all the advice I have received from family and friends, the vast majority are convinced that he needs to go to assisted living, minority either stays neutral and the other minority is against it. I've prayed and search my brain, heart and soul and still......this seems like a lose-lose situation.