I'm sorry, this is a delicate subject, but I'm the daughter of a 90 year-old, ALZ father. His bathroom aim has noticeably been off for the past week or so. It's noticeable he's rushing faster to the bathroom, too. The shower door is now getting wet and the toilet lid, the under side, is splatter painted. His medications tend to make him loose, but he's getting spots now on his shorts and socks. I am wondering if incontinence is far behind. I try to pick my fights carefully with him, as I know this is one that will embarrass him and cause immediate denial, if I suggest Depends, which will also cause a problem to his skin with his loose movements.
Any suggestions? Thanks so much!