I am really confused. My mother is in AL and is receiving A&A. I've been researching for the last 7 months on how I could move her home so I can take care of her. I had our attorney draft a Personal Care Agreement, did all the right things thinking she would not lose the benefit. I just emailed a contact at the local VA and she advised me that my mother would lose the benefit if I did this. Is this correct?? I thought that if it was proven that she needed the help, the VA benefit could be used to pay for a child to take care of the recipient. Can someone that knows what they're talking about please answer my question? Thanks!