My sister is 44 years old & has some moderate mental disabilities: OCD, hoarding, phobias of public places & new people (she hasn't left the house in over 20 years.) She also has some learning disabilities, and I suspect autism, although she has never been formally diagnosed. My mother has always been extremely protective of her, and because of this, she lacks social & coping skills. She is able to provide her own personal care & hygiene, but will never be able to live indepently. Partly due to her disabilities, but probably more so due to the way she was raised. Our mother is currently on hospice & I think she expects my husband & I to continue her care. I don't think we are up to the job. We have two young children and a life of our own. My question is: where can she live if/when mother's house gets sold? She is very set in her ways (i.e. difficult to live with) & I wouldn't consider us close. Not entirely sure we can handle this responsibility for the rest of her life. I need options please.