I live in CA and dad lives a little north of NYC. He calls 911 almost daily to help him get up after falling or to help him out of bed. He also calls lifeline. All my sibs live far from NY. He is an 83 yo Korean Vet. recovering from colon cancer, with diabetes. He lives alone w a home health care "Angel" coming in daily to change diaper, feed and clean up. I try to see him at least once a year. My other siblings are mentaly disabled so are unable to help. Finally my question, Is there any way to get access to his medical providers (he says he never sees a home health nurse)? Another detail is that my father has no money besides SS. He has been hospitalized a few times and refuses to go to the ER when he has fallen or when he exibits signs of recurring cancer or pneumonia. He has not signed a HIPA form giving me access - after repeated requests. I am at a loss. This has been status quo for about 10 years but has gotten much worse since my last visit, What can I do?