Well this has been an interesting few days. My daughter moved back to the area to help with my husband who is at home with dementia. He really needs full time care and nurse recommended a nursing home at this point. My only respite is my daughter comes up on Tuesday night so I can go to a friends house for two hours. She stays overnight so I can play cards at my house with friends for 2 hours on Wednesday. That is my only free time. My husband needs care with eating dressing bathing, he wets bed continually. He gets up at all hours and I am the one doing things. Yesterday I told her I am exhaused of years of doing this. He probably needs a nursing home. She went off on me like you would not believe, she said your card games are more important then my father. She used very foul language. I told her he just tested positive for TB now we need x rays, etc. I am 80 and tired. I told her there was no need to continue conversation. She hung up. So much for help.