My father is 94 and has been living in Everett, WA in Independent Living but requires a lot of help from my sister who lives in Snohomish and she is getting burned out. I am currently living in Guatemala but will be coming to Washington for the months of August and September. I am a retired social worker so have much more experience dealing with these issues so would like to give my sister a break and possibly make whatever changes can be made and look at the future placements. He is very stubborn and expects her or me when I am there to do things and is at times not nice to her. But is nice to others at times. He has a colostomy and ostomy bag which he takes care of himself, is hard of hearing but has a hearing aid which he doesn't want to wear most of the time and also he can hardly walk with a walker and falls frequently( broke his hip about a year and half ago, and refuses to use a wheelchair which he has. He will use it when we take him out but refuses to use it in the facility. I hope this is enough info and I will wait for your reply.