How do I stop my MIL from constantly complaining about health ailments that she makes dr appointments for but never attends these appointments?
Then expects by demanding, not asking, that husband and me do for her what she claims not to be able to do, but she can conviently accomplish these tasks when she feels like it.
I clean her entire house.
I cook everynight for my husband and 13 yr old son.
Though I have made her aware multiple times that dinner is at 6:30 and leftovers are put away shortly after, so nothing spoils as WE do eat leftovers, even though she refuses to, she repeatedly texts my husband, from her bedroom always after 7 asking about dinner.
Or will just come downstairs sometime between 8:30-11 pm and complain that everything is put away.
Want to have extensive conversations while we are winding down and getting ready for bed.
She will complain that she's lonely but totally avoids being downstairs the hours we are active around the house... She comes down stairs between 8 and midnight (sometimes not even seeing her 13 yr old grandson at all) and doesn't go to bed until shortly before we wake up for the day.
We've tried talking to her about this, and she refuses, expecting us to accommodate her hours.
My husband works 9-6, my son has school and I work pt and even when I am not working, I have to keep with their schedule.....