My parents are in mid 80’s and living only on SS. They are also sick and needing assistance. I am trying to figure out what can be done to help them to find a place where they can live. Is there any State or Federal programs aimed to helping elderly citizens in this type of situation? They have no properties nor other type income. They entirely rely on SS.They live in Southern CA.
Most importantly: do *they* see their need for a different solution? Are you helping them for now? If they don't think there's a problem, and you are not their PoA, then you will need to have a discussion with them about a sustainable solution and your participation (or not) in it.