I moved my mother into my house to help take care of her, but she hoards things and makes cluttered messes everywhere she goes so much so that you can't even clean under things anymore. It's just piles or junk everywhere. I basically just live in my bedroom now and only come out to eat and go to work. My house is no longer mine and I will have to make major monetary investments to sell it one day. She's completely ruined the floors and spare bathroom. Her dying cat urinates anywhere it wants and even bringing up the suggestion of putting it down causes my mother to go into crying tantrums. She threatens to move out when I bring these things up and tries to play the guilt trip that she needs help and nothing is her fault. I just can't take it anymore. I want to move and never come back, but it's MY house. My mother pays for nothing.