Caretaker not feeding nutritional meals, not doing expected chores in and outside, lawn care. Stays drunk and high in garage. This 99yr old lady fell last night AGAIN, HE was drunk in bed. Wouldn't help her, she pushed her safebutton, aide car came and got her up. HE NEVER WOKE UP. THIS has happened repeatedly. He is paid plus all living and food expenses in home. HE has her convinced that if he goes family will put her in an assisted living home.
NOT TRUE, they will stay with her AND seek another in home caregiver. He is a 2x's CONVICTED felon rapist, (not on sex offender list it was before that, in 70's. He is making MOTHER BELIEVE HE LOVES HER. Mother is steadily declining mentally but is AFRAID WITHOUT HIM, she will be forced to leave the house. She insists on keeping this worthless conman. He buys what he wants to eat and feeds her ensure. Very SICK SITUATION. He recently groped her 80yr old friend. Friend is scared to report that to not upset MOTHER. Mother knows this happened. Friend will no longer come to visit in her house. MOTHER is being brain washed and used. Mother thinks he is "boyfriend" and is in love with him. He has been charged a couple yrs ago using phone to ask random ladies sex questions. Mother paid for the attorney, she paid his fine he was on probation. He is 68 lived there for 16 yrs. The family can do nothing, even after fall last night (documented) She won't throw him out. We have no say. We have all grocery receipts, not nutritional diet, candy and Ensure. She pays him $1000 a month. What can we do?