What are your top 5? I keep getting surprises and charges. I'm thinking about Moving Mom but I'm more concerned with not upsetting her and her dementia, but times I just want to jerk her out cause I'm upset. You just never think it will come to this I envy people who loose a parent quickly heart attack..ect I hate being left with the memories of her suffering day after day, year after year. I feel so helpless at times.