My mother is 82 and father 87. My mother has been verbally abusive to my sick father. When I returned from a month trip I called my parents to check on them. My father was in the bed 3:00 in the afternoon crying in pain. My mother was cussing and fussing that she does not know his Dr. and refused to call. She gave the phone to my father and I suggested that I will call his Dr. I did and the Dr. asked me to bring him to the ER. My mother did not go. They admitted him because his organs started to shutdown. The next day my mothercstarted to change and blocked me out from everything. She called my absent siblings who live out of state and told them if I get in her way she would call the police. She stopped me from talking to his Drs and stated she is in charge. I do not know what I am doing. She thus moved my father to a rehab center close to hed. My father asked me to conduct some on line business for him. For example, why us he paying to have an email address? I changed that to a free rmail service and explained to him and my mother. My mother who does not use computers got mad at me and called the service and gave them my fathers credit card number. My mother has always bern a control freak. A lot of hatred for me. My Dad called me today and advised that my mother is accusing me of stealing and telling people what is in his bank account. In other words she is trying to turn my father against me. Did I not mention that I am retired from a high security clearance job. Trustworthy and Integrity. I am the only daughter. Parents followed me years ago to the State I live in....I have two brothers who have not visited for over two years. I am critized constantly that I am interfering in our parents marriage, I need to mind my own business, our mother wants me yo stay away from our father etc. My father told me he wrote a living will with my mother in charge of finances and health. I am in charge of health only. Last year I spent the whole year helping my mother who had major surgery. She can be tbe sweetest old lady and turn to the meanest old lady. I am trying to be the good daughter, am exhausted and tired with no support. Should I turn the cheek and let them go on? Even tho I see things that are not right? By the way my mother gave their pastor permission to drive my fathers car. I feel I am fighting a useless cause. My Dad continues to call me crying from the rehab center......I just dont know what is the right thing to do. Thank you in advance for your responses.