My mother is 76 years old and has been living with me and my daughter for the past 12 years. Her health is deteriorating due to Type 2 diabetes, congestive heart failure and arthritis. I'm a single mother of a 13 year old daughter and have been my mother's main care taker since she moved in with me. I have 3 siblings who will help only when called but do not visit nor call my mother on a regular basis. My thought is they fear she will ask them to do something for her. I work during the day and check in with her throughout the day, come home and make dinner for her, etc. Financially it's been difficult for me and my home is unfortunately about to be foreclosed on. I may be able to work out some type of payment arrangement to keep us all in the home but feel that this is going to cause a financial hardship for years to come. I need to sell my home and move my daughter and myself into an apartment and find an independent living solution for my mother. I have no idea how to discuss this with her. I feel incredibly guilty as if I'm sending her off when she needs me the most.